Place the dried fruit in a very large bowl and pour over the alcohol. Cover and leave for 24-48 hours (If the fruit looks thirsty you could always add a little more).
Preheat the oven to 180 degrees Celsius (360 Fahrenheit).
Line your chosen cake tin (this is the most important step).
Cream the butter and sugar until light, pale and fluffy.
Add the eggs two at a time. Mixing well after each addition.
Fold through the golden syrup and coffee essence to the creamed mixture.
Add the creamed mixture to the large bowl of fruit and alcohol.
Fold through the flour, nutmeg and remaining essences. Mix well to ensure all the ingredients are combined.
Place in the prepared tin and into the oven. Turn the oven down to 140 degrees Celsius (280 Fahrenheit) after ten minutes and set a timer for 3 hours time.
Use your finger to test the top of the cake. It is dense so it will not spring back, but you don't want your finger to make an indent. Test with a skewer. You want the skewer to come out clean when inserted in to the middle of the cake. Cook for up to 4 hours.
Cool on a wire rack (this is best done overnight because it will take some time to cool, as it will hold heat for a long period of time). Once cool wrap on brown paper and tinfoil until needed. This is easily prepared a month in advance.